A simple wooden stick

Talking Stick

AI-mediated conflict resolution

Your stick hears your side. Their stick hears theirs. The sticks talk privately to find common ground—without sharing your raw words.

How it works

1

You tell your stick everything

Voice or text. Vent, explain, say it all. Your raw words stay private.

2

They tell their stick their side

We ask if they want to participate. If yes, they share their perspective with their own stick.

3

The sticks negotiate for you

Your stick and their stick talk privately. They find common ground without revealing exact words.

4

You get signals, not ammunition

Your stick tells you: "They're willing to talk" or "Common ground found"—not what they said about you.

5

You decide what happens next

Maybe the sticks help you work it out. Maybe you're ready to talk directly. Maybe it's just not fixable. You're in control.

Why sticks instead of direct messaging?

Direct conflict is hard. Words get weaponized. People get defensive. The sticks act as advocates—they understand what you need, protect your privacy, and look for paths forward without the emotional escalation of raw exchanges.

Did this help?

This is a free service. If it helped you, we'd love it if you'd draw us a picture of a stick. We'll use it as one of our revolving logos.

(And if you want to donate, we won't say no—but the stick drawing would mean more.)

Nothing is shared without your approval.